"The 6 Communication Mistakes That Kill Love, Passion and Connection Faster Than Anything..."

Here's how to make sure you don't fall prey to these costly mistakes so you can keep your love alive forever...


Dear Friend,

"Why do some couples stumble and fall, while other couples seem to have it all?"

The difference is in your communication (or lack of it).

In fact, in almost every survey ever conducted, communication (or lack of it) is one of the top reasons why couples break up or get divorced.

And when relationships crash and burn, it's very often because of one of these 6 communication mistakes we talk about below.

The question is--Are you making one of THESE mistakes in your relationship? 

Read on to find out...

How to know If this is a bigger problem for you and your relationship than you previously thought...

     If you're wondering just how big of an issue communication is in your relationship--here are a few questions to ask yourself so you can find out...

--Do you ever wish that you knew the right words to say to your partner or spouse BEFORE you said something that would cause the two of you to become disconnected and even more distant?

--Do you ever struggle to find the right words to say to your partner to explain yourself and your feelings?

--Do you find yourself in the middle of a fight with your partner and you don't know how or why it happened?

--Do you want to feel more understood by your partner?

--Do you wish your spouse or partner would openly and honestly talk to you and not withdraw?

--Do you wish you could "Stop Talking On Eggshells" and feel like you could say anything to your partner without fear of what they were thinking, what they might say or how they might react?

--Do you wish your partner followed through on what they said they would do?

     If you answered YES to any of the above questions, communication is definitely a problem in your relationship and believe us--you are not alone.

     We know because we've been there ourselves...

Our story...

     Before we got together, the two of us had been in marriages to other people that lasted for many years. After divorcing from our previous spouses, we found each other and discovered that our love was deeper and we were more connected than we ever had been in our previous relationships.

     Since we could honestly say that we made just about every communication mistake there was in those previous relationships, we were determined not to make those same mistakes in our shiny, new relationship.

     The truth is that we DID make those mistakes (and more) and it could have cost us our relationship if we hadn't been so determined to learn how to communicate for lasting love, to practice what we learned and then teach it to others.

     Susie remembers when Otto's "tone of voice" triggered feelings of not being good enough inside her--and as a result, she became defensive and what he called "controlling." Then he'd get defensive and angry--rebelling against being "controlled."

     Well you get the idea that it wasn't a pretty picture--and very damaging to our relationship...

     With a lot of study, practice and trial and error, we've learned what to do to not get so defensive when our partner says or does something that triggers us so we can stay open to one another.

     We've learned which words and phrases to say that open our partner instead of pushing him or her away--and which words help to regain our deep connection with one another.

     We've learned these secrets and you can too...

Why communication has been so hard for you before now and why most people have such a hard time communicating and connecting with each other...

     It's not your fault that you or your partner don't always communicate easily and the way you want.

     After all, how could it be?

     How could you or your partner be expected to know communication techniques that could really connect the two of you?

     You couldn't.

     No one ever taught them to you and the big reason is simply that most people don't know them--and even if they've heard of them, they don't practice them.

     After all, wouldn't it have been great if when you were in grade school learning to read and write that your teachers also taught you the best ways to communicate to create the best possible relationships?

     Wouldn't it also have been great if your parents or your early childhood caregivers would have taught you the secrets of communication and the best words to use to communicate with love and kindness and to really connect with those you love at a heart and soul level?

     The fact is...your teachers in school didn't teach you these things because they didn't know and your parents didn't know either because nobody taught them.

     It's so painful not knowing what to do in your relationship to create what you want--a closer relationship with more love, connection and intimacy.

     In order to help you create this, we want to share some of our communication secrets that form the foundation of our close, loving marriage with you right now so you can begin using them in your relationship immediately.

     And please make sure that you don't take these ideas lightly.

     We know these ideas work in our relationship and life, as well as in the lives of our Relationship Breakthrough Coaching clients, and they can work for you too.


6 BIG Communication Mistakes that kill love,
passion and connection (faster than anything)
and how to avoid them...

     Over the past 16 years of studying, trying ideas out in our own marriage (falling down and getting back up again) and teaching about how to create a close, connected, loving and passionate relationship, we've discovered that there are six common communication mistakes that either make or break a relationship...

Communication Mistake #1 

You Do What We Call-- "Talking On Eggshells..."

Most people don't realize this but one of the biggest reasons intimacy breaks down is NOT conflict but avoiding the conflict. In our work, we call this "talking on eggshells"--and if you're going to create a closer connection, you have to stop doing it.

     "Talking on eggshells" is when you're afraid to say what you're feeling because of your partner's reaction.

The two of you haven’t learned how to stop when there’s a problem and calmly look at it together and figure out how to resolve the issue without getting defensive and moving into gridlock.

     We think of it as staying clean with each other: no withholds, no half-truths, no drama, just honestly thinking and talking it through.

Most people get fearful of what their partner might say, do or how they might react if they speak their truth and tell them what they really think or how they really feel. So they don't.

     Holding back only creates resentment but you have to learn how to say it so your partner listens and understands.

     Caution: Most people who decide they've "had it" with "talking on eggshells" and want to start exercising their personal power very often make another BIG communication mistake--they go overboard with their intention to "speak their truth" no matter what and actually become hostile, belligerent and un-cooperative.

This also does more harm than good to your relationship as you can imagine.

Communication Mistake #2 

Using Words and Language That Kill the Love, Passion, Spark and Desire Instead of Words and Language That Pull You Closer...

Many people are oblivious to the words they use (as well as their tone of voice) and don't realize that these words and phrases are said from habit (and past experiences) and are damaging their relationships.

     Believe it or not, there are "magic" words and phrases that create closeness and connection--and there are words and phrases that push the two of you apart.

     Take for instance a phrase that many of us use without thinking (that actually comes off as demanding and controlling) when we want to get our partner to do something or act in a specific way...

     "You (or we) need to do _______"    

     Otto had a coaching client recently who said this to his wife in a coaching session and Otto pointed out to him that this was a statement not the question he thought it was.

     In using those words, the man was assuming his partner wanted to do the same thing he wanted.

     She didn't.

     In fact, she felt like she didn't have any say in what was being discussed and that her thoughts weren't important.

     Even if that wasn't this man's intention, that's the meaning his words conveyed.

     On the surface, this seems like such a small, inconsequential thing but it isn't.

     When communicating with your beloved (or anyone else in your life) you want to avoid using any words or language that kills openness and connection.

     This man didn't do that.

Communication Mistake #3

Making WRONG Assumptions Instead of Finding Out What Your Partner Really Thinks, Feels or Wants...

One of the biggest problems couples face, especially when they've been together for many years, is that they know everything there is to know about their partner. They drift into thinking they have nothing to say to one another except asking and answering logistical questions about their everyday lives--like "Can you pick up Sally at 5 today?"

     They assume they know what their partner thinks, feels or wants when they really don't.

When this happens, boredom, distance and discontent seep into the relationship and one or both people wonder "Is this all there is?"

     This kind of relationship is ripe for cheating and affairs but it doesn't have to be this way.

     Our "5 Minute Magic" technique is a quick and easy way to get your partner to open up and willingly talk to you about what's important to them instead of just "going through the motions" in your relationship.

One part of the "5 Minute Magic" technique is to ask what we call "one question deeper."

     In most people's intimate relationship, they let precious opportunities slip by to find out more about how their partner thinks and feels.

     They instead, rush on to try to fix him or her--or even worse, tell them something about themselves and ignore what their partner just revealed.

     What you want to do is communicate in loving, open ways that help your partner stay open to you and at the same time help both of you to feel respected and loved.

     Asking questions from an open, loving place and going "one question deeper" than you normally would ask is a great way to find out more about what's going on in them and help the two of you get closer and feel much more connected.

Communication Mistake #4 

Most Couples Repeatedly "Push Each Other's Buttons" and... To Make Matters Worse, Very Often It's On Purpose

One of the things that most of us get really good at as our intimate relationship ages is pushing each other's buttons.

     And we usually just keep pushing them without ever realizing how or why it happens.

     The happiest couples recognize when they're about to say or do something that most likely will create a negative, defensive reaction in their partner--and then make the choice to say it differently so that they can stay connected.

     One way to begin to stop pushing your partner's buttons is to become aware of when you do it and what you do, as well as what button is pushed inside you to cause you to act in those ways.

     When you become aware of the whole scenario, you can come up with a plan to put some space between when you're triggered and your reaction. Then you can make another choice.

     To create more happiness, make communication a choice and not an unconscious habit.

Communication Mistake #5 

The Majority Of Couples Say and Do Things That Destroy Safety and Trust Instead of Doing Things That Build It Up...

Believe it or not, at the bottom of every communication problem is a lack of safety and trust.

     If you or partner cannot be who you truly are at your core in the relationship, there is a safety and trust problem.

     It's not safe to be who you are and say what you think because you're afraid you'll be ridiculed, dismissed or put down.

     And you don't trust that your partner will listen to you and accept you as you are and who you want to be.

     In a close, connected partnership, you develop safety and trust by listening without getting defensive, interrupting or trying to fix.

     Each time you're able to not get defensive because your partner is telling you something you really don't want to hear--or you think you have a better idea, you create safety and trust.

     That's certainly not to say that you ignore blatant violations of your agreements and commitments--but it is to say that you learn how to listen and not get defensive, as well as learn
to express what is true for you.

     Safety and trust are built in every moment--or destroyed. You get to decide in every moment which happens.

Communication Mistake #6 

Getting Controlling and Manipulative to Try to Get the Love You Want Instead of "Getting Curious" or "Staying Open"...

One of the strangest phenomenon of relationships is how we try to manipulate or change the people we say we love.

     We mistakenly think, "things would be so much better if they were only more like me" or "things would be so much better if they would do things the way I want..."

    ...And then, in the name of love, we develop a whole variety of really interesting (and sometimes not-so-healthy) ways to manipulate, guilt-trip and persuade others to give us what we want even if it isn't necessarily what they want.

     We do this and then we wonder why they "push back," rebel or resist opening to and loving us.

     If you or your partner are accused of being controlling or manipulative, one way to get out of that communication minefield is switching your attention to being curious and open to what they want as well as what you want.

Most of us get controlling and manipulative when we don't think we have a choice in the situation, we think our partner won't do as we want and we think we won't get our way. When you commit to staying open and curious, your partner stays open and you both have choice.


Discover The Simple Communication Secrets
That Create True Relationship Miracles ...

     When you stop doing the mistakes we just talked about and start doing the ideas we've shared with you, the possibilities for more love than you ever thought exist.

     When you begin experiencing the kind of deep, profound love that we know is possible for you, you'll start to think it's magic.

     In fact, when some people begin making the shifts in their communication that we're talking about, they start to think that perhaps a "Miracle" may have happened to them.

     What else could it seem like?

     We'd call it a
miracle when you and your partner start to talk openly and honestly when you've been shut down for years.

     We'd call it a
miracle when you start to feel heard, appreciated and understood (maybe for the first time ever)

     We'd call it a
miracle when you're able to say what's in your heart and your partner listens when they didn't use to.

     We'd call it a miracle when you and your partner actually have fun together again.

     We'd call it a miracle when the words you use help you and your partner come to an agreement instead of fighting.

     We'd call it a miracle when you and your partner feel more romantic toward one another than you have for a long time.

     If being able to have the kinds of miracles we just talked about happen in your relationship or marriage appeals to you--then get our brand new program we just created that gives you ALL of our best communication secrets and strategies all in one place...


The Keys To Solving ANY Communication or Connection Problem...

It's Susie and Otto Collins's...

The "Communication Magic & Miracles Toolkit" is the best program ever created for communicating, connecting and creating a lifetime of love.

     We've taken 9 of our most powerful programs that solve the biggest communication challenges that keep you from connecting from your spouse, partner or lover and combined them into one toolkit to give you the best strategies ever created for improving communication and connecting at a heart, mind and soul level.

Download The "Communication Magic and Miracles Toolkit" Now and Here's What You'll Get...

Program #1

Magic Relationship Words ebook and audio program

This includes our best-selling book and two audios.

We've organized this "Magic Relationship Words" book from our program into three parts:

In part 1, we give you the "Magic Words Mindset" which is the mindset from which you want to communicate everything to your partner and any other important person in your life.

This is critical. After all, if you're going learn the right words to say, you're going to want to make sure you know how to say them.

That's what we do next--we give you the exact tonality, body language and attitudes you're going to need to know to make sure all the other parts of you are congruent with the new words you're going to be using.

Next, you'll get 83 chapters that are either one or two pages that each focus on teaching you one word, phrase or sentence-starter.

Each of these chapters are written in the same short, consistent format and has three distinct parts--

1. First, in bold print, we give you the magic word, phrase or sentence.

2. Next, we explain or share why we think this particular word, sentence or phrase can work like "magic" for you in your relationship and finally...

3. In each chapter, we give you an example of these words in action. These examples provide a context for how someone else has used these words to create more closeness and connection in his or her relationship and life so you can get an idea about how you might apply them to your situation.

When you order the "Communication Magic and Miracles Toolkit," you also get this... 

"Magic Relationship Words That Build or Rebuild Trust" audio recordings...

These two mp3 audios are about 90 minutes total and are NOT recordings of us reading the "Magic Relationship Words" book.

These recordings are additional info that expand on what we teach in the main book. On these two audio recordings, we focus on the "magic words" that build and rebuild trust in a relationship or marriage--and that's something we could all use more of.

The first mp3 audio you get is about 60 minutes and is the recording from the actual "Magic Relationship Words That Build or Rebuild Trust" teleseminar and webcast.

We give you not only specific words and phrases to say to your partner but also words and phrases to say to yourself to help you change your internal "self-talk" to get you in the "right" mindset to communicate with your partner when there are trust issues to resolve.

The second mp3 audio you get is about 30 minutes and is the recording of us (Susie & Otto) answering some specific questions that were sent to us about these "magic words" that build trust.


Program #2


How To Stop Talking On Eggshells
book and audio program

In this program, we'll give you everything you need to know in order to stop talking on eggshells and start connecting with your spouse or partner in a whole new way.

Our "Stop Talking On Eggshells" program includes a guidebook and 6 audios that will add additional insights and distinctions to what you will learn from the manual.

With this breakthrough new info, we take you by the hand and give you practical, step-by-step instructions on how you can talk to your partner or spouse about anything without fear about how they'll react or what they'll say, think or do. 

We've organized the guidebook into three parts...

In the introduction and chapter one, we're giving you background information about what talking on eggshells is and why most of us do it.

In Part 2, we will guide you through identifying your situation and looking at your problem with new understandings.

In Part 3, we give you specific strategies for learning to trust yourself, making conscious choices instead of reacting, speaking your truth from your unfulfilled or unspoken wants, needs or desires and making requests that are able to be heard and understood--and most of all, how to communicate with ease.

You're also getting...

~Four "Stop Talking On Eggshells " audios that include two "Stop Talking On Eggshells At Home and At Work" audios, the "Relationships and Money" and "7 Intimacy Secrets" recordings.  

With these simple, yet powerful ideas, you won't have to keep your thoughts, feelings or what's important to you inside any more. 

With what you'll learn in "Stop Talking On Eggshells," you'll finally be able to talk about anything (especially the important stuff) without either one of you shutting down or getting upset. When you apply this new information, you'll also feel more understood, loved and more connected than you ever thought possible.


Program #3

Communication Magic book and audio program (Classic Edition)

In this part of the "Communication Magic Toolkit," you get the classic edition of our "Communication Magic" program which includes both the (now out of print)  "Communication Magic" book and the 4 audios from our "Secrets To Communicating Straight From The Heart" teleseminar series.

In the book, you get our original, amazing formula for communicating straight from the heart to create a lifetime of love.

Here, we offer proven, practical ways to create ease and flow in your relationships through communicating what you want in a way that someone else can hear.  We give you ways to work together so that you both can get what you want. 

This book will give you the secrets you absolutely must know if you want to improve communication in your relationships and create a lifetime of love.

Also included in this program are:  

~ The "Secrets To Communicating Straight From The Heart" Teleseminar Audios

These four audio recordings are the recordings of a two-night teleseminar series that we gave on communication in relationships. These recordings are filled with nearly 3 hours of awesome information on communication.

As you'll hear on these recordings, nothing was held back. Our intention with this teleseminar series was not only to help the people who attended but also to give you the information you need to  communicate better, connect deeper and attract more love into your life.  

The ideas that we shared during this teleseminar series is the same information that we would share with you if you were our coaching client and we were working with you individually. 

These audio recordings and the "Communication Magic"  book are meant to be used together to give you as many tools as possible to help you release and let go of the communication challenges that are preventing you from having the love you really want in your life.  


Program #4


5 Minute Magic guidebook and audio program

Are you ready for an easy and enjoyable way to regain intimacy and keep the connection in your relationship strong, healthy AND passionate?

The “5 Minute Magic” technique is what we cover in this incredible new program that's never been released to the public.

It's a powerful way (and a shortcut) for you and a partner to increase communication, connection and intimacy in a very short time each day.

And, did we say it's easy?! It is.

When used regularly, this technique will help you feel closer, more connected, more understood and more cherished and adored.

Plus, you and your partner could even enjoy each other sexually like you haven’t in awhile.
We invite you to experiment with it for 7 days and see what changes happen for you.


Program #5


How To Get Your Partner, Spouse or Lover
To Open Up To You audio program

These are the recordings from a teleseminar and web audio cast that we (Susie and Otto Collins) did that show you how to get your partner, spouse or lover to open to you.

This program will be especially helpful to you if you're in a relationship with someone who is distant, standoffish, aloof, disrespectful, non-committal, emotionally unavailable, cold, wishy-washy, unable or unwilling to share his or her feelings, negative, unwilling to work on the relationship, and doesn't see the problems like you do.

If anything in the previous paragraph describes any part of your relationship or marriage, then you are going to want to listen to these recordings called "How To Get Him or Her To Open To You..." 


Program #6


Stop Pushing Each Other's Buttons audio program

Do you or your spouse, partner or lover ever say or do things that "push each other's buttons"?

Do you or your partner sometimes say or do things (whether you mean to or not) that irritate, upset, confuse or hurt each other?

And finally...

Would you like to eliminate unresolved conflict in your relationship forever?

Maybe it's about silly little small things...


Maybe it's things that are much bigger...

But what we've found is that no matter how much in love you are with your spouse, partner or lover, you STILL do things on a regular basis that push each other's buttons.

If you want to make your love last over the long haul, stay connected and keep the passion going for as long as you're together ...

You have to find a way to stop pushing each other's "buttons" in ways that create distance and separation and that push the two of you away from each other.

That's why we're offering the recordings from the teleseminar and web audio cast called...

 "How To Stop Pushing Each Other's Buttons and Get Back To The Loving"


Program #7


7 Keys To Getting Your Partner To Listen To You audio program

If your spouse, partner or lover doesn't listen to you, you can't help but feel frustrated, alone and like you're with someone who just doesn't care.

When this happens, your relationship or marriage is going to suffer because of it.

On this recording from this class we've only offered once, we're going to show you how to get even the most closed-off, distant or annoyed spouse, partner or lover to listen--truly listen to you (and actually enjoy it).

With what we'll share with you on this recording from our live teleseminar, you'll know the exact steps you can take to quickly and easily get your partner to truly listen to you once and for all.

You'll also learn what you can do immediately to get them to be more open, loving and willing to truly hear you. 


Program #8

Crash Course in Communicating With Women book and audio program (For Men)

If you're a man (or a woman and want your man to understand you), you'll love this breakthrough new program that shows you exactly how to communicate with a woman in ways that will make her feel totally and completely connected to you AND have her willing to open her heart, mind and body to you in ways she never has.

A "Crash Course In Communication For Men" is a downloadable book and audio program that is the first "communication program" of its kind just for men who are either married or in a committed relationship and want to know how to communicate and connect at a whole new level with the woman in their life.

In the audio portion of this package, there are two instantly downloadable audio recordings from the two-hour "Crash Course In Communication for Men" teleseminar and web cast did.

As you listen to these audios, you'll find that in the first portion of the teleseminar, we give you the theory behind why men and women communicate the way they do. In the second portion of the program, we go into detail with specific examples that if you try them out, you're bound to see your woman opening up to you in ways you never thought possible.

The book is an instantly downloadable communication guidebook for men and has 14 short, simple chapters that focus on teaching you one communication breakthrough idea in each chapter.

The info in the guidebook is NOT the same information that is on the audios that we covered in
the "Crash Course in Communication For Men" teleseminar.


Program #9


Make Him More Romantic audio program

If you're a woman who wishes (at least at some level) that you could wave a "magic wand" and your man would instantly be more romantic, pay more attention to you and make you feel like the most special and most important woman in the world--our  "Make Him More Romantic" teleseminar and web audio cast is for you.

If you're a woman who longs for more romance and doesn't like the idea of going through the rest of your life without it--THIS information is for you.

If you've ever found yourself wondering (to yourself or out loud) "Where did the romance we used to have go?" --then this program is definitely for you.

If there's any part of you that isn't willing to let your desire for more romance die or fade away--then this is for you.

If you're willing to open your heart and mind and be willing to try a few new, simple ideas that have been proven to increase love and restore romance (even when the couples thought all was lost), then you should get this program now.

We believe that every guy has an "inner romantic" that's just dying to get out and be released.

In this audio program, we'll show you how incredibly easy it can be to release your guy's inner romantic and get him to be the incredible romantic you've always dreamed of and wanted him to be --without fighting, arguing or threatening to leave.


Here are just a few of the things you'll learn with our "Communication Magic & Miracles Toolkit"...

The communication mindset you must adopt if want more openness, love and understanding between you and your partner

How you can stay connected or intimate with your partner even during arguments or misunderstandings

How to tell the truth in a way that is kind and helpful instead of upsetting or destructive--even when it's difficult

How to deal with a partner who is controlling and sees no reason to change

How to sustain and nurture open communication so that both you and your partner are growing in your own unique journey of life while living in partnership and as a team

8 things to pay attention to in order to make sure your words match your desired outcome

How to start a conversation in a way that shows your partner you're open to listening and talking about solutions to problems or challenges rather than blaming and criticizing--doing this will feel so much better to both you and your partner

The best words to say and use when you want or need to set boundaries or make requests

One word you shouldn't say to your partner (or anyone else) when you are making a request of them and the one word you should say instead

A breakthrough question you can use to start out a conversation with your partner that shows without a doubt that you value their opinion--when you ask this with curiosity and an open heart, your partner can't help but shift too and begin to value your opinion more as well

The one thing you should always ask someone before you offer any kind of advice--this makes sure you are honoring them and you're also not doing something they don't want

The most important thing you should eliminate from your relationship today if you want more love, romance and spark between you and your partner

3 ways any woman can motivate her guy's inner romantic and when to use each of these three tools for maximum impact on him

How to make your partner to not only think about you and your love more often but how to get them to show their love and devotion to you as much you want

How to get your partner to open up to you and talk to you about anything

How you can feel more understood and appreciated (almost overnight)

How to have more trust and connection between the two of you

The 4 reasons why almost all communication challenges happen and what you can do to make sure they don't turn into even bigger relationship problems

Communication strategies for stopping the constant tug of war over how to deal with issues like where to spend the holidays, what to spend money on and why, raising the kids, how often to have sex and who should initiate it

The right way and the wrong way to be honest--one builds connection and trust, the other destroys it

How to use your differences to bring you together instead of tear you apart

How to make difficult conversations easy

And Much More...


How to tell if this "Communication Magic
& Miracles Toolkit" is for you...

     What we're offering here is a breakthrough program on how to communicate, connect and create a lifetime of love.

     The communication tips, ideas, insights and strategies are absolutely cutting edge. NO ONE else is teaching the kinds of proven, practical, real world, tried and tested communication ideas that you'll find in this toolkit.

     If you want to learn the secrets to communicating and getting a spouse, partner or lover to open to you, communicate with ease and love and free of drama and conflict--then you'll love the things we share in this toolkit.

     This program will require you to put forth a little effort but with what you'll learn about how to communicate, you'll be able to take a HUGE shortcut to communicating and connecting (or reconnecting), with even the most cold, distant and withdrawn partner.     

     If you want to break through any blocks, barriers or limitations that may be holding you back from communicating with the love of your life--then THIS "Communication Magic & Miracles Toolkit" of ours is for you.

     If you are open to some new ideas and trying a few new things that you may not have tried before, then this program is certainly for you.

     On the other hand, if you don't have the connection that you truly want, you've decided to give up on making things better and be content to do nothing differently--then you should probably pass on this program and continue doing what you've been doing that hasn't seemed to have worked for you as well as you've liked.

What makes "Communication Magic & Miracles Toolkit"
different from anything else? 

     What makes our "Communication Magic & Miracles Toolkit" different from any other communication program available is just how practical and immediately useable this information is.

     We've read, looked at and studied hundreds of other books, audios and courses on relationships and communication and what people tell us time and time again about our work is how easy it is to understand and apply what we teach in their own relationships and lives.

     While we do give you the theory and the "why" behind these strategies and how they work so well, what we share in the toolkit is very practical and not just theory.

     You can start using these techniques where you are (no matter how bad your relationship is) and start seeing dramatic changes in your communication and relationship for the better right away.

     What we can tell you about the tips, ideas and strategies we offer in this toolkit is that they have been proven to work not only in our relationship but in the lives of our coaching clients as well.

     In our own relationship, we feel that even though we consider ourselves to be soul mates, if we hadn't learned how to communicate and connect using the kinds of tools we're talking about in this toolkit, our incredibly beautiful and passionate love affair that's still going strong (now in our 16th year) may well have met the same fate that our first marriages did.

     When other people apply what we teach in their relationships, it's the same thing.

     An example of this is what one of our recent coaching clients had to say...

     She said-- "Our relationship is now much more relaxed again and there aren't the extremely tense situations. We enjoy spending time with each other. We have both learned that the stories we told ourselves about each other were completely wrong. It has enabled us to have more respect, compassion, and appreciation for the other."

     Nothing is more critical to the success and happiness of a relationship than communication. This toolkit will show you how to quickly and easily communicate and connect with your spouse, partner or lover in new ways to build trust, closeness and intimacy that will last a lifetime.

     If you don't think you can make big shifts and changes in your relationship just by learning some new communication skills--you can--and this program will prove it to you.

Let's wrap this up

     We have a very simple belief about love, romance and relationships that is radically different from most people that we hope you'll embrace, even a little bit.

     If you do, we think it could change your relationships and life forever.

     This belief is that love, passion, romance and the spark NEVER has to die in your relationship or marriage.

     When you do these things that we'll teach you in our "Communication Magic and Miracles Toolkit," here's what's possible...

     Just for fun, we think it might be helpful for you to ask yourself which of these things you'd like to happen in your relationship or marriage...

  • Communication gets easier

  • Walls and defenses come down

  • Conflicts get solved

  • Jealousy goes away

  • Affairs and cheating stop

  • Openness and honesty become the "rule" and not the exception

  • Trust gets rebuilt

  • Romance gets rekindled

  • Love gets deeper and stronger

  • The fun comes back

  • The spark gets reignited

  • You feel more heard and listened to

  • You feel more understood and appreciated

  • You turn from being strangers into lovers again

  • The passion, intimacy and sex gets hotter and more frequent

  • You feel more adored, desired and cherished


     One of the biggest reasons why all this happens in some relationships and not others is because some couples practice these ideas we're talking about in our "Communication Magic & Miracles Toolkit" almost all the time and other couples don't and that's not all...

     Couples who do these things we're talking about feel like they can talk to each other about ANYTHING...

     And they Do.

     The term we like to use for couples like these is "close and connected."

     What's great about this is that you and your partner, spouse or lover will be MUCH closer and more connected when you use what we teach you in this program.

     We believe that there are some very simple things that you can do to communicate in more loving ways that keep the love, passion, romance and spark alive forever.

     It's time for you to start getting more of the love, passion and connection that you want.

    That's why we urge you to take advantage of this special offer now while it's still available.

Here's What We Know About You...

     If you've read this far, we're thinking that you're someone who really is interested in more from your relationship than you have right now and you're willing to be open to some new ideas to create something better.

     Are we right?

     We think so and if you're finally ready to start using these new ideas we've been talking about and start communicating to connect--pulling your partner closer, opening their heart with your new ways of communicating--then here's what you're going to want to do...

     Download our complete "Communication Magic & Miracles Toolkit" now and start going through the information right away.

     This will be like having us whispering in your ear and coaching you on the right things to say and do to communicate and connect when it counts the most.

     Now is the perfect time to take advantage of the fact that we've spent years putting together the best collection of communication tools, tips, ideas and strategies that you'll find anywhere, along with easy instructions on how to use them and apply them in your relationship and life.

To get this program at this incredibly low price,
you must act now...

     The value of everything you're getting in our "Communication Magic & Miracles Toolkit" is  $397 but because of this special offer, you're going to get it for a one time charge of only $147.00 or you can make 3 payments of $49 (your choice).

     The most important thing is that you click the big "ADD To Cart Button" below to get your copy of this program right now...


Plus, if you order now, we'll also include these incredible bonuses absolutely FREE...  

Bonus #1 -- "21 Words, Phrases and Sentences to NEVER Say To Your Partner, Spouse or Lover"--
In this special downloadable bonus in .pdf format, we're giving you a list of 21 of our top words and phrases to NOT say to your partner if you want to have a close and connected relationship filled with love, respect and kindness.    

Bonus #2--"10 Communication Mistakes Most People Make In Their Relationships and What They Can Do To Fix Them"  --  This special report by Susie and Otto contains the master keys on how to start improving communication now with everyone in your life. This 21 page downloadable special report is in pdf format.

Bonus #3--"Love Lessons"  is a 56 page e-book in pdf format that will give you dozens of powerful insights, tips, ideas and strategies for creating an outstanding relationship. 

Bonus #4--"Creating Relationship Magic" identifies 52 of the biggest challenges and issues we all face in our relationships and show you how to keep these from being problems in your relationships. This book is in pdf format.

Surprise Bonus #5--"Relationship Trust Turnaround" book
If trust is an issue for you or your partner, here's how to rebuild trust in your relationship or marriage after cheating or an affair. This complete course has been carefully written to give you all the information and help you're going to need to start turning trust around and rebuilding your relationship right now. This manual is 195 pages of techniques to guide you through rebuilding trust and is part of a package that currently sells for $67.


Warning: This "Communication Magic & Miracles Toolkit" package that includes the books, the audios and terrific bonuses is not available in stores anywhere. The only place you can get it is here on our web site.

Because this is a downloadable package, you can be reading the information and listening to the audios within minutes.

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Your satisfaction is assured through our no risk, you-can't-lose, 100%, no-questions-asked money-back guarantee. 

If for any reason, you aren't completely satisfied with your purchase, just let us know within 60 days and we'll refund 100% of your purchase price. 

Click the "add to cart" button below to download the complete "Communication Magic & Miracles Toolkit" now...
and you'll be on your way to creating instant breakthroughs in your communication, not only with your partner or spouse-- but the other people in your life as well.  


Our best to you,

Susie and Otto Collins 

P.S. Remember, this "Communication Magic & Miracles Toolkit" is not available in stores anywhere.  It's only available as a downloadable package here on our web site. 

Don't put it off. Order now and you'll be taking that all important first step towards knowing exactly how to communicate, connect and create a lifetime of love.

Susie & Otto's Success Stories and
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